Well, I think I've found real reason of slow down "Error in accept: Too many open files in system" - I didn't notice this in logs earlier and thought that problem is with mysql. I don't now yet what is causing this, but I know where to look.
Anyway, this was interesting discussion - thanks everyone for participation :-)
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