Thanks everyone....
I discovered I have to edit the public_login.pl file and "flip the switch".
I found the file and have the changes.....wish me luck.....
Allow Invisible:
Select yes if you'll like to have the ability for people to hide themselves from Who's Online, no otherwise. Note that if you select no, you'll have to manually hack public_login.pl to remove the invisible mode option and the opposite if you select yes.