My host (i´m on a shared server) says I can change the settings in my.cnf by my self
I need to increase the max_connections value, because I get a lot of "too many users errors".
But how do I edit my.cnf? Where do I find it? Do I use telnet? How do I upload my own my.cnf and what should I put in it?
I´ve been searching through the mysql site, but I need something easier (like a my.cnf for dummies

) to understand. I´m all but a mysql-pro.