The top 3 things that make up my community...
1) Kindness - Flaming seldom happens on my UBB, and everyone is willing to help out the next guy. I find that great, which is why I help people here, on my own UBB and other boards I go to.
2) Equality - Most of my Mods treat themselves as if they were normal members (just the occasional 1 or 2 think they automatically gain respect because they have authority, but none ever abuse their power).
3) The community itself - You can't make a good community, it makes itself. Kind members, decent posts, little flaming, great people in authority. I know many boards that follow this pattern, UBBDev included. It makes everyones' stay in the community that little bit better.
